You are constantly being pressed for quotes, virtuals, and physical samples – that is part of your job, it is the thing we do to solicit and gain business, while part of the business, it’s time consuming! After all the work, you could hear a pin drop!
What Do You Do If You’re Ghosted After Doing Great Work?
Most of the folks I consult who have had this happen get frustrated, disgruntled, and some even take it personally. While these feelings are normal, I believe there are some simple things you can do to mitigate the angst and frustration.
What is Ghosting?
Simply - not hearing back from clients after jumping through hoops to get them timely information – it is a sad commentary on our business world today, but there is hope.
You’re Not Alone
‘Cliff, that does not make me feel better’, I get it, however understanding there are underpinnings as to why this is happening helps, knowing the steps you can take to change course direction will give you clear steps to create a better result.
Begin The Process on a High Note
I have found, most salespeople fail to ask the right questions, enough questions, and to set measurable expectations – my belief is most are unconsciously afraid that if they ask to many questions, or lay out expectations, they may lose business – and in some cases, that might be the better tact.
When a client asks for a quote, a sample, or a virtual – or anything, get clarity…
· When is the event?
· Who are the decision makers?
· Is there a committee making the decision?
· Is there a budget to be considered?
· When will the decision be made?
· When do you want me to follow up to get their decision?
There is a plethora of additional questions one could ask, but why are these important?
When is the event?
- We are dealing with supply chain and freight issues; this can adversely affect your ability to get things completed.
Who are the decision makers?
- If there are other decision makers, it would be nice for you to know them as well to include them in your correspondence – I try NEVER to allow someone else to pitch my ideas, they don’t know it like you do.
Is there a committee making the decision?
- Committees are like PTA’s, multiple personalities, multiple points of view, once again, if YOU can pitch and have direct input, you have a better opportunity to guide the conversation.
Is there a budget to be considered?
- Obvious question, and many times clients say, ‘we don’t have one…yet’, so you’ll need to do some deeper diving here with the client, I will explain further.
When will the decision be made?
- This ties back to question one, supply chain and freight issues; this can adversely affect the outcome.
When do you want me to follow up to get your decision?
- You are professionally placing people on notice you WILL be following up; you will have something to fall back on should it be necessary.
Power Of COMPLETE Communication
Never short-change yourself by being timid with the facts, in fact, if you shy away from the truth about what is really happening and reminding your clients and prospects, this will come back to bite you – be open, honest, and straightforward in your communication.
Everyone is experiencing these challenges – communicate them upfront
Supply Chain Issues
- Material shortages, and port bottlenecks extend the times and cause disruption
Worker Shortages
- Due to all the craziness, and despite what is being touted, suppliers in many cases, are finding it difficult to secure workers to decorate the products.
Freight Delays
- Depending on the time of the year, normal three-day transit times can be extended two or three additional days.
While it is true, you do not control these challenges, you do control what and how you communicate. I encourage you to find articles, photos, whitepapers, blog posts that help support your claims – this will help validate your claims. Many times, I have added links to my quotes for them to review – it is a game changer.
The Ultimate Communication
I know everyone reading this wants to do a great job, you need and want business, but don’t create issues for yourself. If you want more direct, timely communication, be the person that communicates early, openly, and regularly.
Let folks know why you are communicating in this manner.
I need to get the information as quickly as possible, pro, or con, if you are not interested, I understand, my goal is to:
a. Ensure you can get the product or service you want
b. That you get it in time
c. You avoid any unnecessary rush charges from the factory
d. Avoid any unnecessary freight charges or delays
** A Special and Important Note on Freight**
If your client is insistent on using their freight number, OR if you use your freight number to ship in lieu of the factory’s number, the responsibility on the dispute resolution ends at the loading dock. Simple terms: if using the client’s or your freight number, the CLIENT or YOU are responsible for all tracking and follow up, not the vendor – this is rarely, if ever, communicated.
Summing It All Up
Regardless of the outcome, follow up in a positive manner
- Never degrade the competition
- Send a thank you email, or better yet, note or card
- Keep the line of communication wide-open
- Request feedback for better improvement
- Again, if you get the feedback, thank them, and act if needed
It Is Upsetting…but Take Control
Being ghosted is frustrating, especially after having done all the hard work, and these tips may not solve all the issues, but for me, it has mitigated a lot of the angst. Additionally, if you find someone over time, is a habitual abuser, you came make a conscience decision as to whether you continue the relationship or not.
Make the best of all situations, and remember, you are in control if you choose to do so. Choose wisely.
Until Next Month - Continued Good Selling – Take Control. CQ
For nearly 40 years, Cliff Quicksell, CSP, MAS+, MASI, has been a pioneering figure in the promotional products industry through his company, Cliff Quicksell Associates. He is globally recognized for his exceptional skills in speaking, coaching, training, and consulting, helping businesses and associations market their products and services more effectively while motivating their teams. Cliff’s remarkable achievements include induction into the PPAI Hall of Fame in 2021 and earning the CSP (Certified Speaking Professional) designation in 2023, a prestigious accreditation held by only 7% of the world’s speakers and the only active member in the promotional products industry to hold this title.
A creative powerhouse, Cliff has been awarded the prestigious PPAI Pyramid Award over 40 times, the Printing Industry's PSDA Peak Award for creativity five times, and the CPPA Peak Award 13 times, including six consecutive years. He has also received PPAI's Ambassador Speaker of the Year Award for six consecutive years and was the inaugural recipient of PPAI's Distinguished Service Award. Recognized by PPAI in the book "PPAI at 100" and by Counselor Magazine as one of the Top 50 Most Influential People in the Promotional Products Industry, Cliff is celebrated for his significant influence in education and industry training.
Cliff’s blog, "30 Seconds to Greatness," won the 8LMedia Award for Most Passed Around Content. Connect with Cliff on LinkedIn or via email at cliff@QuicksellSpeaks.com to stay updated on his podcast and upcoming events. Visit www.QuicksellSpeaks.com for more information. Cliff is also preparing to launch a new company aimed at supporting small business owners and entrepreneurs.